Poly-friendly sex therapist in Richmond, VA

Sex Therapy & Relationship Coaching

for individuals and partners seeking deeper communication, connection, and intimacy

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Education & Resources

Dealing with desire discrepancy?

Fighting jealousy or insecurity?

Considering an open relationship?

Need help talking about sex?

I didn't think we'd ever get back to feeling normal about each other, much less have sex again, but somehow Valerie helped us talk things through and rediscover each other.

— Trisha

Hi I'm Valerie

I help people empower their sexuality

I became a therapist to help people rise out of sexual trauma—like how my therapist helped me.

I added coaching to offer a broader array of services—and help people solve problems that don’t fit a diagnosis.

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How sex coaching works

1.

DISCOVERY CALL

2.

DESIGN YOUR STRATEGY

3.

DO YOUR HOMEWORK

4.

DISCOVER YOUR POSSIBILITIES

It couldn't be easier—simply decide that you have something to gain by working with a professional sexologist. Then decide to begin.

Coaching Services

DIY Relationship Coaching Resources

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DIY Resources

Decode Desire

Free guided discussion tool for understanding desire and how to communicate your wants & needs:

Sex therapy resource: desire discrepancy

How to Talk About Sex

Conversation guide for discussing your comfort level around various sexual terms & ideas:

Discuss Non-Monogamy

Considering ethical non-monogamy? Here's a free coaching resource to start the conversation on the right foot.

How to talk about ethical non-monogamy therapist worksheet

Ready to RISE?

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