RISE Library: Articles on Sex, Intimacy, and Communication 

You’re the easygoing, low-maintenance one who keeps the peace. You’ve probably spent years being this way, but what if it’s costing you the connection you crave in your relationship? Most people know about fight, flight, and freeze. But the fawn response is the one that flies under the radar, because it doesn't look like a problem. It looks like being a good partner. You say yes when you mean no, you minimize your feelings before they even leave your mouth, and you prioritize

You've told your partner what you need. Maybe you've told them a hundred times, and nothing changes. So at some point, you stopped asking. You stopped being vulnerable. You stopped fighting for it. And somewhere in that silence, a story started forming that says, “They don't care. They never will, and maybe this relationship is too far gone to fix.” That resentment in relationships doesn't announce itself. It builds slowly through dismissed comments, unresolved arguments, and

You can orgasm just fine on your own. So why does it feel almost impossible with a partner in the room? If this is something you've quietly wrestled with, you're not the only one. Research shows about 58% of women find orgasm easier through masturbation than partnered sex, and the same pattern shows up for men. This has very little to do with your body's capability and almost everything to do with what's happening in your mind and your nervous system when someone else is in t