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Richmond Institute of Sexual Empowerment
POLY-INFORMED RELATIONSHIP COACHING
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Hey you!

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Special summer offer...

Get 10% off any coaching session or package when you schedule an initial consultation call (free)

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Navigating polyamory?
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Struggling with jealousy?
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Opening a relationship?
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Hoping to explore play options?

I was 100% sure we were about to break up, but Valerie guided us through some difficult conversations we were afraid to have on our own...and thru a few really powerful sessions we were able to reconcile and start working on rebuilding our connection in ways we'd never think of.

— RL
poly-friendly sex therapist

Hi I'm Valerie

I help people talk about sex

As a sex therapist licensed in Virginia, I help people work through trauma, attachment, performance anxiety, and other issues that affect human sexuality.

As a poly-informed relationship coach, I help people navigate the trickier parts of consensual non-monogamy and learn about the possibilities, ethics, and challenges unique to the lifestyle.

How sex coaching works

1.
DISCOVERY CALL
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DESIGN YOUR STRATEGY
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DO YOUR HOMEWORK
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DISCOVER YOUR POSSIBILITIES
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Start with a no-commitment discovery call to see if we're a good fit. After that, the possibilities are endless...but you know that.

Whatever you're dealing with—you're not alone

During this free consultation call, we'll talk about what you're hoping to accomplish, your experience so far, and where your head is on all this.

 

I'll fill you in on my process and experience, explain how coaching works, and answer any questions you have.

If it seems like a good fit, we'll come up with a plan together. This may include communication exercises, journaling, guided self-inquiry, and various therapy modalities that fit your needs.

And that's where the fun begins...

Each week we'll talk about your progress and adjust our plan accordingly. This is your path. I just help you map it out.

Exercise your curiosity

Discuss desires & boundaries

Address avoidance & anxiety

Communicate jealousy & expectations

Practice empathy & compersion

Craft mutual agreements

Manage friends & family

Design the relationship(s) of your wildest dreams

Don't wait for things to get bad. Every worthwhile journey needs a good guide who's been there, who understands the challenges you face.

plus this 10% off deal expires soon, so get on it!